google was very unhelpful as i didnt provide enough info to my account to regain access to my phone
but i did find a back way into my phone this my be helpful to other people, i already had viber installed on my phone, one of my friends called me from viber during the call i had my phone connected via usb to my computer, while on the phone call i was able to use the pull down menu tab, which allowed me to activate the usb connection. i then backed up all my files on the my computer

GOOD TIMES!!!
after backing up all my files i turned the phone off, then turned it back on as it was loading i held down the upper volume, power button and the lower middle button for a couple of seconds then released them which loaded some reboot menu, from this i was able to do a factor reset to remove the google account and unlock my phone
after the reset i could use my phone again, to my surprise i didnt lose my photos or music but everything else was deleted
hope this helps other people with SGS2 phones